Hi Joy,
Of course, if there is something on your chest it's good to talk about it
I've have a go at answering your questions...
Originally Posted by: joy 
Admin, I think you’re great. You’ve provided us with this space where we can all do our Joaquin thing. You keep us updated on Joaquin things and I’ve had some really fun times with you since I came here. There’s something which has been bothering me though.
Originally Posted by: joy Now, I know you like to talk about sex a lot and make crude comments
Not really keen on talking about sex, it's messy business after all
. The crude comments are just acting around, a persona when chatting to
sarahlou if you will. If I didn't think she liked bantering around like that then I wouldn't do it, it's just acting to make things interesting, like you would with friends down the bar/pub. You don't think I really have a butler do you, or that I really have an interest in
sarahlou's neighbors or that I have a 'thing' against the north of
england?
It's just a playful persona
Maybe
sarahlou can comment?
Originally Posted by: joy and I have to say that sometimes I feel embarrassed for you, but there’s one comment in particular you made when you were chatting with
saralou and me one time. Your comment was “Falcon Punch
“ in response to
saralou’s comment about how being kicked in the vagina would hurt (you thought it wouldn't). She had fallen on a picket fence, I think, and that’s when you made your Falcon Punch
comment. I had to look that one up in the urban dictionary. I should have said something then, but I can’t get past the fact hat you think a Falcon Punch is
. It’s been bothering me ever since, even though I’ve tried to ignore it. It makes me feel sick and sad to know that you feel that way and sick and sad that I said nothing at the time.
I've no idea what a Falcon Punch is or where the name came from? Something from a film maybe
The shape someone makes when they are holding their crotch in pain?
I don't know, I think i saw somewhere that someone had called a hit to the crotch a 'Falcon punch', so that's why I referred to it. I'm sure it means something to somebody and if it's in a some kind of dictionary it must be a term that's used. I've been hit in the
knackers before and its more
thanthat's for sure.
Originally Posted by: joy I'm just being honest. I have to say something because I don't want to carry it anymore. I am very sad that this has happened. I feel uncomfortable; and I don't think I can stay unless I can resolve how I feel about it. About you. I'm not sure I can though, unless you want to talk about it?
What do you think about my replies above joy? Has that helped clarify things in your mind
I hope it has
In summary, it's all
sarahlou's fault and you should spank her bottom with a woman's weekly
