Admin said :
"Sami,
The main thing i can't get my head around is why people suddenly have such a problem with Joaquin and Sophie. Most people on the forum seemed to be happy that Joaquin was with Heather? What's the difference exactly?
Joaquin hasn't suddenly changed, he's always dated similar girls even before you became a fan... him dating Sophie is "the norm" so to speak. So, if he hasn't changed, why have people's opinions?"
Hi Admin,
First of all, I became a fan of Joaquin because of the Letterman interview. I didn't know anything about him b4.
I saw the interview and I really liked it, he gave the same exact responses I was hoping some1 would give him someday because I don't like how predictable and silly he was, and how he expected the celebs to always be funny and entertaining instead of really discussing the movies they were there to promote. Well, Joaquin was so rare and so brilliant. I instantly loved him. But I loved him for his mind , not for his looks . After that I started checking his work.
This is to say that I am a very different fan than another that perhaps loved him in Gladiator or Johny Cash. My first attraction to him was never physical. I wanted to know him because of his mind .
This being said, when I saw the pictures with Aria back then I was shocked. I was completely in shock and awe. How could a mature, sophisticated man like him be dating a girl that looked like a highschool teeange? They look so weird together.. I had to rub my eyes. I just couldn't believe it..
Then with Heather, I was completely in shock and very disappointed as well. You may recall my reaction here.. if I haven't deleted it its' still there. I think I said something in the lines of : "this is like a punch in the stomach" But I end up getting used to her and accpeting her because she seemed a smart person.
Now, this with Sophie , even if it's just a fling.. I just can't .. it's too much. the thing is that all these time I have ex[pected him to change. You think it's temporary. Yes, I'm a bitch and I kick his ass , but it's because I love him, don't you see? I really like him and I think I have to kick his ass because if I don't nobody will do it. as it seems I'm one of the few fans with common sense and enough strenghth to confront him. I would say everything to his face. I'm not afraid. I don;t go behind people. If I say it here is because I hope he will read it at some point.
so yes, I still have hope not so much for change, but that he will realise how much of a ridicule he is doing because the problem is that he doesn't see himself and it reflects with the choices he makes.
(Post edit: Sorry , the order of the paragraphs was flipped. Just fixed it)
Edited by user Thursday, March 21, 2013 8:32:38 AM(UTC)
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